100个让生活更美好的秘诀（关怀篇）

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100 个让生活更美好的秘诀

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Compassion

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82. Call your parents when you think of them, tell your friends when you love them.

想起父母时，就给他们打个电话；觉得爱朋友时，就告诉他们。


83. Compliment people more. Many people have trouble thinking of themselves as smart, or pretty, or kind, unless told by someone else. You can help them out.

多赞美他人。许多人除非被别人告知，否则很难觉得自己聪明、美丽或善良。你可以帮助他们。


84. If somebody is undergoing group criticism, the tribal part in you will want to join in the fun of righteously destroying somebody. Resist this, you’ll only add ugliness to the world. And anyway, they’ve already learned the lesson they’re going to learn and it probably isn’t the lesson you want.

当某人遭受集体批评时，你内心的部落本能会让你想加入这场正义凛然的摧毁狂欢。请抵制这种冲动，你只会给世界增添丑陋。况且，他们已经吸取了他们能吸取的教训，而那很可能不是你希望他们学到的。


85. Cultivate compassion for those less intelligent than you. Many people, through no fault of their own, can’t handle forms, scammers, or complex situations. Be kind to them because the world is not.

对那些不如你聪明的人，要心怀悲悯。许多人并非自身过错，却无法处理表格、应对骗子或复杂的处境。善待他们，因为世界对他们并不友善。


86. Cultivate patience for difficult people. Communication is extremely complicated and involves getting both tone and complex ideas across. Many people can barely do either. Don’t punish them.

对难以相处的人，要培养耐心。沟通极其复杂，既要传达语气，又要表达复杂的思想。许多人两者都难以兼顾。不要因此惩罚他们。


87. Don’t punish people for trying. You teach them to not try with you. Punishing includes whining that it took them so long, that they did it badly, or that others have done it better.

不要因为别人尝试了就惩罚他们。你这样做是在教他们以后不要在你面前尝试。惩罚包括抱怨他们花了太长时间、做得太差，或者别人做得更好。


88. Remember that many people suffer invisibly, and some of the worst suffering is shame. Not everybody can make their pain legible.

记住，许多人的痛苦是无形的，而最深的痛苦之一是羞耻。不是每个人都能将自己的痛苦清晰地表达出来。


89. Don't punish people for admitting they were wrong, you make it harder for them to improve.

不要因为别人承认错误而惩罚他们，你这样做会让他们更难进步。


90. In general, you will look for excuses to not be kind to people. Resist these.

总的来说，你会为自己不去善待他人寻找借口。请抵制这些借口。


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