100个让生活更美好的秘诀（他人篇）

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63. In choosing between living with 0-1 people vs 2 or more people, remember that ascertaining responsibility will no longer be instantaneous with more than one roommate (“whose dishes are these?”).

在选择与 0-1 人同住还是与 2 人或更多人同住时，请记住，一旦室友超过一人，责任的归属将不再一目了然（“这是谁的碗？”）。


64. Understand people have the right to be tasteless.

要明白，人们有权保持无趣或品味不佳。


65. You will prevent yourself from even having thoughts that could lower your status. Avoid blocking yourself off just so people keep thinking you’re cool.

你会为了维持自己在他人眼中的 “酷” 形象，而阻止自己产生某些可能降低身份的想法。避免这种自我设限。


66. Being in groups is important. If you don’t want to join a sports team, consider starting a shitty band. It’s the closest you’ll get to being in an RPG. Train with 2-4 other characters, learn new moves, travel from pub to pub, and get quests from NPCs.

置身于群体之中很重要。如果你不想加入运动队，可以考虑组建一支蹩脚的乐队。这是你能体验到的最接近角色扮演游戏（RPG）的经历：与 2-4 名其他角色一同训练，学习新技能，穿梭于各个酒吧之间，并从 NPC（非玩家角色）那里接受任务。


67. It’s possible to get people to do things that make you like them more but respect them less. Avoid this, it destroys relationships.

你有可能让别人做出一些让你更喜欢他们、却降低了对他们尊重的事。避免这种情况，它会摧毁关系。


68. Think a little about why you enjoy what you enjoy. If you can explain what you love about Dune, you can now communicate not only with Dune fans, but with people who love those aspects in other books.

花点时间思考你为何喜欢你所喜欢的东西。如果你能解释为何喜爱《沙丘》，那么你不仅能与《沙丘》的粉丝交流，还能与那些喜爱书中某些特定元素的其他读者产生共鸣。


69. When you ask people, “What’s your favorite book / movie / band?” and they stumble, ask them instead what book / movie / band they’re currently enjoying most. They’ll almost always have one and be able to talk about it.

当你问别人 “你最喜欢的书/电影/乐队是什么？” 而他们支支吾吾时，不妨换个问法：“你最近在欣赏什么书/电影/乐队？” 他们几乎总能说出一个，并能就此展开话题。


70. Bored people are boring.

无聊的人使人无聊。


71. A norm of eating with your family without watching something will lead to better conversations. If this idea fills you with dread, consider getting a new family.

与家人共餐时不看任何东西的习惯，会带来更好的交谈。如果这个想法让你感到恐惧，或许该考虑换个家庭了。


72. If you bus to other cities, consider finding a rideshare on Facebook instead. It’s cheaper, faster, and leads to interesting conversations.

如果你经常乘坐大巴去其他城市，可以考虑在 Facebook 上找顺风车。这更便宜、更快捷，还能带来有趣的交谈。


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