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73. In relationships look for somebody you can enjoy just hanging out near. Long-term relationships are mostly spent just chilling.

在亲密关系中，寻找一个你能享受仅仅待在他身边的人。长久的关系，大部分时间都只是轻松地共处。


74. Sometimes things last a long time because they’re good (jambalaya). But that doesn’t mean that because something has lasted a long time that it is good (penile subincisions). Apply this to relationships, careers, and beliefs as appropriate.

有些事物历久弥新是因为它们本身就很好。但这并不意味着历时久远的东西就一定好。请酌情将此理应用于人际关系、职业和信念。


75. Don’t complain about your partner to coworkers or online. The benefits are negligible and the cost is destroying a bit of your soul.

不要在同事面前或网上抱怨你的伴侣。这样做的好处微不足道，代价却是侵蚀你灵魂的一角。


76. After a breakup, cease all contact as soon as practical. The potential for drama is endless, and the potential for a good friendship is negligible. Wait a year before trying to be friends again.

分手后，尽快断绝一切联系。藕断丝连可能引发无尽的戏剧性，而成为好友的可能性微乎其微。等上一年再尝试做朋友吧。


77. If you haven’t figured things out sexually, remember that there isn’t a deadline. If somebody is making you feel like there is, consider the possibility that they aren’t your pal.

如果你在性方面尚未探索明白，请记住，这没有截止日期。如果有人让你觉得有，那么他可能并非你的益友。


78. If you have trouble talking during dates, try saying whatever comes into your head. At worst you’ll ruin some dates (which weren’t going well anyways), at best you’ll have some great conversations. Alcohol can help.

如果你在约会时不知如何交谈，试试想到什么就说什么。最坏的结果不过是毁掉几次本就不顺利的约会，最好的结果则是展开一些精彩的对话。酒精或许能有所帮助。


79. When dating, de-emphasizing your quirks will lead to 90% of people thinking you’re kind of alright. Emphasizing your quirks will lead to 10% of people thinking you’re fascinating and fun. Those are the people interested in dating you. Aim for them.

约会时，弱化你的怪癖会让你在 90% 的人眼中显得还不错。而强调你的怪癖，则会让 10% 的人觉得你迷人又有趣。后者才是对你真正感兴趣的人。瞄准他们。


80. Relationships need novelty. It’s hard to have novelty during Covid—but have you planned your post-Covid adventure yet?

关系需要新奇感。在新冠疫情期间制造新奇感很难 —— 但你是否已经开始计划疫情后的冒险之旅了呢？


81. People can be the wrong fit for you without being bad. Being a person is complicated and hard.

一个人可能不适合你，但这并不意味着他是个坏人。做人本就复杂而艰难。


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